Coming Out

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Coming Out…Again

By pwsbuilder / February 19, 2016 / Comments Off on Coming Out…Again

It seems that my last 40 years has been about coming out. And each time I come out, I’m filled with awe by the courage of those that have come before me. I’m afraid that those who have professed to love me will change their minds. I’m certain that I will again be “too much.”…

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An Open Letter To Gay Catholic Priests From A Gay Catholic Priest

By pwsbuilder / February 9, 2016 / Comments Off on An Open Letter To Gay Catholic Priests From A Gay Catholic Priest

Dear Gay Catholic Priests, I know you’re busy, so I will try to make this brief. Many of you have been following the story in the news about a gay catholic priest from Chicago who recently came out. I know you’ve been following his story because I’ve been following his story. And, I know that the thought…

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People Of Faith Support HERO In Houston!

By pwsbuilder / October 30, 2015 / Comments Off on People Of Faith Support HERO In Houston!

The Houston Equal Rights Ordinance, lovingly known as HERO, is a ballot proposition being voted on this Tuesday. People of faith across Houston have joined the campaign to make HERO law and protect 15 classes of people currently without vital non discrimination protections in the city. Stories of some of those advocates of justice and…

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Dragged To Drag: We Lip-Sync For The Lord

By pwsbuilder / October 9, 2015 / Comments Off on Dragged To Drag: We Lip-Sync For The Lord

Growing up as a gay male in the 60’s and 70’s, with the wider LGBT community just beginning to open the door to the great closet, the culture of our invisible community was hidden from me. Living and growing in the world as it was, I often felt like I had been kidnapped and forced…

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Coming Out As A Lesbian Mom

By pwsbuilder / September 9, 2015 / Comments Off on Coming Out As A Lesbian Mom

Facebook often sends me photos of past events I’ve posted. Kind of like a nostalgic, hey remember all the fun you had 5 years ago?! The last “reminder” really got me. The reminder came just days after what I affectionately call “The Breakdown.”  The day of The Breakdown ended with me sitting on the kitchen floor, holding both my babies (we have twins) as they…

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A Presence Stronger than Absence for Pride 2015

By pwsbuilder / June 25, 2015 / Comments Off on A Presence Stronger than Absence for Pride 2015

The post coming-out talk that I had with my mom related to my sexuality was hard. It had to do with her and dad going to therapy. They’d found a therapist who’d went to Smith College; they sought counsel from her. It sounded hopeful, at first. I opened my heart up at least wider than…

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A sign that says i love my gay son.

What Happened When My Son Came Out As Gay

By pwsbuilder / February 27, 2015 /

When my husband and I became parents for the first time, we knew this new role would change our lives forever. Our Catholic faith told us that we had been given the opportunity to become co-creators with God. Gazing into that innocent face helped us to realize that the unconditional love that we felt for…

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Coming Out: An Ash Wednesday Reflection

By pwsbuilder / February 18, 2015 / Comments Off on Coming Out: An Ash Wednesday Reflection

But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly. (…) But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head and wash thy face; That thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which…

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Coming Out! From The Closet To The White House

By pwsbuilder / February 2, 2015 /

“…Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by. And that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost For over 30 years of going to my workplace and being fearful that my sexual orientation would be found out; I never dreamed I would be standing in the Oval Office…

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7 Reasons To “Queer” The New Year

By pwsbuilder / January 8, 2015 /

So, you’ve probably noticed the word “Queer” being used more and more. Do you find yourself wondering, “why to use the word, Queer?” Maybe you’re LGBTQ and wondering why Queer matters in your community. Well, get your party hats on, because this post is a celebration of all things Queer, and you’re invited! 1. It…

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