Coming Out

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The Struggle Of Rebirth: A Catholic Coming Out

By pwsbuilder / October 17, 2014 /

In reflecting over my ongoing sojourn with faith and sexuality, I realize that who I am and the area I seek to evolve is one that both disturbs and is disturbed, changes and is changed. As I look back at my life in an effort to re-remember my re-membering as I wrestle with church teaching,…

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Spirit Day 2014: How We Can Prevent Bullying

By pwsbuilder / October 16, 2014 / Comments Off on Spirit Day 2014: How We Can Prevent Bullying

Four years ago, beginning in October of 2010, we in the United States saw a rash of gay teenager suicides—Asher Brown, age 13, in Houston; Seth Walsh, also 13, in California; Billy Lucas and Justin Aaberg, both 15, from Indiana and Minnesota; and Tyler Clementi, age 18, a freshman just beginning his studies at Rutgers…

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Top 10 Reflections On Coming Out & Christianity

By pwsbuilder / October 11, 2014 / Comments Off on Top 10 Reflections On Coming Out & Christianity

For the second year in a row, we are honoring National Coming Out Day with this Top Ten list of our favorite blogs on Coming Out & Christianity! No matter how you choose to celebrate this year, we hope these reflections bring you joy and comfort as we consider the spiritual significance of our aspirations…

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Christian Parents Reject Their Gay Son: What Can We Do?

By pwsbuilder / August 29, 2014 /

A video making its way through the internet depicts one of the worst coming out experiences one can have. In it, we hear a mother start with “I love you,” and move quickly to kicking her son out of her home, then to attacking and beating him. The video is painful to watch (listen to, actually,…

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I Was Kicked Out Of My Church For Being Gay—And God Still Loves Me

By pwsbuilder / August 27, 2014 /

I was baptized a few weeks before my 19th birthday because of the Book of Romans and its assurance that once you come to Christ, your mind is renewed and you are set free from the bondage of sin. After my baptism, I walked around with my Bible. I told my whole family and strangers…

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Being Gay In A Post-Matthew Shepard Wyoming

By pwsbuilder / August 21, 2014 / Comments Off on Being Gay In A Post-Matthew Shepard Wyoming

We as human beings are constantly seeking our life story while sometimes comparing ours to others. This is my story. I speak on my own behalf, not for all the LGBT people in my state. I live in the big open space called Wyoming, from the small town of Lander. The youngest and only girl…

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Let It Go: When You’ve Been Nice Enough

By pwsbuilder / March 25, 2014 /

“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment.” I John 4:18 A year ago this month, I came out to myself and the world. I totally overturned my life to seek peace and happiness, because neither my ex-husband nor I was happy, and by extension, our daughter was…

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Being Gay In A Bible Belt Congregation

By pwsbuilder / March 11, 2014 /

I’ve been in church since I can remember. I was baptized as a baby in the first Pentecostal church that was ever built in America—Keelville Pentecostal Church—in a tiny community in southeastern Kansas. When I was a kid in the early to mid-eighties, our congregation ran somewhere between 60 and 80 people, two-thirds of which…

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Staying Silent No More: I Am A Christian Ally

By pwsbuilder / March 3, 2014 /

e”In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” – Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. In my heart, I’ve always known that God is a God of Love. That at its core, the Bible preaches Love—a hand for the downtrodden, glory for the cast-asides, another chance…

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Blessed Are They That Mourn

By pwsbuilder / February 4, 2014 / Comments Off on Blessed Are They That Mourn

“Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4). When I was living and working in Toledo, Ohio, in my mid-20s, I often had lunch at this large, cafeteria-style restaurant downtown. Patrons would load their trays and sit in a large atrium filled with tables, booths, and a lot of potted ferns.…

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