Mental Health

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Painting Our Lady of Sorrows

By pwsbuilder / May 10, 2017 / Comments Off on Painting Our Lady of Sorrows

The month of May finds those within the Christian tradition solidly within Easter season, reveling in the promise of resurrection, while simultaneously celebrating Mother’s Day. To be honest, I’d never seen much of a correlation between these two events in the past. But since my brother’s death in March, I’m viewing everything through the lens…

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We Are Beloved

By pwsbuilder / May 3, 2017 / Comments Off on We Are Beloved

When was the last time you heard a sermon focusing on your belovedness, with no “but” attached to it? I mean, an entire Sunday service all about taking in and feeling how much God loves you and delights in you—with no mention of, or alluding to the need for you to be better than you…

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Painting Grief: Remembering My Fallen Ally

By pwsbuilder / April 13, 2017 / Comments Off on Painting Grief: Remembering My Fallen Ally

Trigger warning: description of addiction and substance abuse I’ll never forget telling my younger brother that I’m gay. He asked if I was dating anyone. Since he’d recently met the person I was dating, I simply told him who she was. He responded, “Damn, I was planning to ask her out. Well done, Ang.” From…

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Self Care: Tools for the Resistance

By pwsbuilder / February 6, 2017 /

Every morning I wake up and I try to work for a better, more just world. I am a faith organizer for Reconciling Ministries Network.  It is my job to spend each day working with people a little bit each day to do justice, and to push for a world where everyone has enough, where…

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Christians Vote For Disability Justice

By pwsbuilder / November 5, 2016 / Comments Off on Christians Vote For Disability Justice

Micah 6:8 a verse that I meditate on and try my best to reflect in my life. The part that I want to focus on in this message is “to act justly.” That requirement from God is all-inclusive. It does not say, “To act justly except for LGBTQ people” or “to act justly except for…

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When Christians Erase My Bisexuality

By pwsbuilder / September 27, 2016 /

It’s hard on the heart to realize you’re invisible. That realization has fallen on me in all too many spaces: At school and work, among friends, and within the confines of the church. I am bisexual, and I have largely been blessed with accepting people surrounding me. I have only rarely been subject to violence…

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Breaking The Curse Narrative

By pwsbuilder / August 11, 2016 / Comments Off on Breaking The Curse Narrative

Recently, two people–one queer and neurotypical, and one straight and mentally ill–confided similarly troubling worries to me. The first told me his mother had disowned him because he is gay, and, as he said, “to her that meant rejection of, and rejection by, God.”  The second said her extended family was no longer talking to…

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In Defense Of Thomas’ Doubt

By pwsbuilder / May 13, 2016 / Comments Off on In Defense Of Thomas’ Doubt

The Apostle Thomas gets a raw deal. Really, in mainstream American Christianity, and in the secular popular imagination, he gets reduced to some kind of one-dimensional figure, known only for a moment in which he was proven wrong. He’s “Doubting Thomas,” the one witness to the resurrected Christ who takes a moment to think rationally…

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LGBTQ Mental Health Care In The Black Church

By pwsbuilder / February 24, 2016 / Comments Off on LGBTQ Mental Health Care In The Black Church

Back in the day, Girlfriends was one of my favorite sitcoms to watch. To see the interactions between strong Black women on television that mirrored what I was exposed to in my family always left me joyful and anxious to watch the next episode. The cast of the show was Joan, Lynn, Mya, William and…

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How I Came Out To My Church As HIV-Positive

By pwsbuilder / January 20, 2016 / Comments Off on How I Came Out To My Church As HIV-Positive

Wrap yourself in the comforter and you will sweat that fever out. I can hear these exact words echoing in my ears as an adult whenever I get sick. As a child, my mother and grandmother would offer me these words of advice to combat whatever sickness had crept up on me. They would give…

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