Spiritual Affirmation

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Advancing Equality In Love And Marriage

By pwsbuilder / May 28, 2014 /

Love is one of the things that makes us, as a people, thrive. We love our families. We love our friends. We grow to love those in our communities. We love those in our church. And we even love those who are in our schools. Love is a matter of the heart. Most persons who…

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My Loneliness Led Me To God

By pwsbuilder / March 18, 2014 / Comments Off on My Loneliness Led Me To God

Simply writing the title makes me feel over-exposed. Just now walking our dog, Hobbes, I found myself contemplating my lifetime need for God. I felt extremely lonely as a child. Hard to believe in a loving household of a family of five with pets living in a small tract house with a single bathroom, sharing…

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Loving My Queer Identity

By pwsbuilder / February 14, 2014 /

This Valentine’s Day, I pledge to love my queer identity. I pledge to honor the truth I hid for ten years—the door that remained unopened, the secret I was too afraid to face. Today, I pledge to love the part of myself I was told to hate. I pledge to remember the relationships I never had,…

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“If I Could Straighten Out!”: That’s What He Told Me

By pwsbuilder / January 16, 2014 /

My name is Johnie Guerra. I’m straight and happily married with four wonderful boys. I’m the grandson of two pastors and my parents did their best to raise me with a Bible-based upbringing. Recently, I’ve started attending a church with an inclusive ministry for LGBT people, volunteering at a youth group for LGBT kids, and…

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Is Attending Church Worth The Risk?

By pwsbuilder / December 16, 2013 /

Visit our Welcoming Church Map to find a welcoming & affirming church near you. “Church starts at 9:30,” my dad yells into my room. I immediately text my wife, Oh god! Dad wants me to go to church with him! I don’t know if I can do this. I really don’t want to—should I go…

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Love Makes A Family: Queering The Nativity

By pwsbuilder / December 11, 2013 /

In 2009, I created my own gay and lesbian nativity scenes for the Christmas season. One had two Marys at the manger with the baby Jesus, and the other featured two Josephs with the Christ child. I put Mary with Mary and Joseph with Joseph—just like putting two brides or two grooms on top of…

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All Saints Day: Why We Need LGBT Saints

By pwsbuilder / November 1, 2013 / Comments Off on All Saints Day: Why We Need LGBT Saints

LGBT saints are important because people are searching for alternative ways to lead loving lives. Churches have tried to control people by burying queer history. The LGBT saints show us not only their place in history, but also our place—because we are all saints who are meant to embody love. We can tap into the…

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